Tuesday, August 30, 2011

How does reaction relate to our daily life???

For those studied science at primary or secondary education level, we are familiar with a word named "reaction". How does this word related to our daily life??? Is it just a word used by some particular person like chemist???

Actually our daily life can be explained using the word "reaction" also....

For an example, a simple reaction like
E
HA + HB -------> H2 + AB

For chemistry student, we name this reaction with "metathesis reaction" or in simple word the substance is changing their partner... Both A & B abandoned their partner and they become couples.

In reality, When we want to get something, we must abandoned something or vise versa. Usually the option given to us is limitted, we can't always get what we desired, we need to let go something... Chinese phrase states that "有得必有失"....

Whats the function of E in the reaction, we named it as counterions or sometime it might be catalyst/inhibitor.

Counterions present in the reaction, but they do not really take part in it. It just like some people in our life, they do exist but they do not really influence our life at all, they all just walk by. Their existance only make our life more complete or sometime they mess up our life...

Catalyst speed up the reaction while the inhibitor retard the reaction. Catalyst are the those always give us support, motivate us and guide us to a better life. Inhibitor are those people always influence us in negative ways, stops us from doing the right thing..........



Sunday, August 21, 2011

<知无不言,言无不尽>

相信大家都有听过<知无不言,言无不尽>吧... 意思就是知道就没有不说的 说的就会全部说出...

这句话是不是真的适合用于人际关系中???

有时候简单的一句话,说者无意,却听者有意...

本来是一句无心机的话,往往会被扭曲本来的意思... 制造了不必要的麻烦...把自己陷入万劫不复的境地..

所以呢,,, 该说的不一定要说....不该说的一个字也不要提起.....

<<该说的不一定要说....不该说的一个字也不要提起>>

Saturday, August 20, 2011

<活出属于自己的人生>

每个人都有属于自己的人生....

不要盲目地跟随别人的步伐.... 他们可以以这方式成功,不代表你也可以像他们一样...

勇敢地聆听自己的心声,走出属于自己的一条康庄大道.....

THE FUTURE IS IN UR HAND!!!

相信自己的能力吧!!!

人生短短几十年,,盲目地跟随会让你迷失在人生道路上.......

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

<心的距离>

当两个人在吵架时,我们会发现他们的声音越来越大声了....

这到底是为什么呢??

因为当我们在吵架时,两个人心的距离增加了...提高声量是怕对方听不见....

很不可思议吧???

两个人在热恋中的时候,心的距离是最小的...所以一个微笑,一个手势,一个小动作也可以专递讯息... 因为大家都能感受到对方心里想要表达的...


股神巴菲特的名言---在人际关系里管用吗??


有上过经济学的人都听说过DIVERSIFICATION.... 就是分散风险...
简单来说就是不要把全部鸡蛋放进同一个篮子里...
目的是为了降低风险....

但股神巴菲特却说,应该先了解市场,分析公司的前景,然后把所有资金集中在一个项目里..... 这样才能得到最大的利益...

但在人际关系里... 往往把全部精力集中在一个人身上,得到却是伤心,难过,遗弃的回报....

"别把一个人太重要,可能在他心里,你什么也不是"

所以最好把爱分给身边每个人... 家人,朋友,...... 这样可以减少受伤的几率.......

一个摄影者的心理!!!


作为一个摄影者... 每天都能够把每件人与事物拍下来...事物的美态,漂亮的风景,人生的喜怒哀乐....

但每每看回自己所拍的照片时,发现照片里缺少了一个重要的元素....就是摄影者自己...心里都会感到莫名的失落....